in the shelter of the

flowering cherry

blossoms falling on my head

I Am


shocked by currents

flowing through me

forcing me to fall upon the


to groan upon the earth

my fingers searching

for the


where I can stand

dust at my feet

stardust filling every cell

from the earth arising

an exclamation of a gratitude

in God

I Am

so deeply



The pestilence is spread on the slightest gossamer of breath and in response we must be grounded, sheltered, isolated, quarantined, so we can find again the oneness of our bodies in a common humanity. The word “grounded” opened up for me avenues of reflection on what we need to stay grounded in as we respond to this threat to our lives. I invite you to do the same. Your reflections are welcome here at “comments.” Don’t let the “Captcha” gate deter you. Stay grounded.


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Plague, Prayer, and Possibility

The pestilence raging all around us takes our memories back to the influenza epidemic of 1918 and beyond that to the plagues of 14th century Europe that killed off one-third of the population. For those of us who read a lot in the Bible, it brings to mind the “little apocalypse” in the Gospels. where Jesus says: “For as in those days before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day Noah entered the ark, and they knew nothing until the flood came and swept them all away, so too will be the coming of the Son of Man. Then two will be in the field; one will be taken and one will be left. Two women will be grinding meal together; one will be taken and one will be left.  Keep awake therefore, for you do not know on what day your Lord is coming. But understand this: if the owner of the house had known in what part of the night the thief was coming, he would have stayed awake and would not have let his house be broken into.  Therefore you also must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an unexpected hour.” (Matthew 24:38-44)

So we are poised, some awaiting the death of individuals, of families, of governments, and of a desiccated old order no longer able to stand up before the fire of what is demanded by a God who seeks the full flourishing of all creation. In the Gospel perspective, calamity is the unveiling of what really is at the core of God’s purpose for all of creation. Here it takes the form “Son of Man.” You can fill in whatever term or symbol might convey a sense of the new possibility of human fulfillment.

As we wait, some huddled down, some scrambling to cobble together their resources to face a possible year of want, we are also looking at what will survive of our old order and what will burn away. Maybe we will rediscover the freedom of human community beyond the supposed freedom of individual liberty. Maybe we will embrace more completely the light of Truth rather than the semblance of celebrity illusion. Maybe we will throw open our windows to sing for and with each other. Maybe we will claim more deeply our common humanity in sharing food, resources, and an environment beyond the pollution of our skies, streams, and bodies.

In the loss may be our finding. In the isolation may be a deeper bond of care, in our trimmed down expectations a real hope that shares a common world of shared life. Let us know what you might be finding now. What might be your open windows as we undergo the disciplines of mere survival in the face of this invisible onslaught of disease.

I attach the liturgy for last week’s Roundtable Worship Gathering, which was cancelled along with other worship gatherings in our community. The Reading was not specified. You can add your own. Wherever your table is, wherever you go to get carry-out from your local restaurant, do what people have always done at table. Give thanks. Open your hands. Let them be cleansed. Let them be ready to touch again.


Roundtable Gathering

March 15, 2020

Call to the Table

            Out of pestilence and plague,

            You lead us with your healing power.

            In the dungeon of our darkest fears,

           You bring the light of your resplendent love.

            From the bitter isolation of our loneliness,

            You take us to the joyous banquet of your new creation.

            With stubborn limp and fearful hesitation,

             We come to your table,

            ALL:  Your table of peace. Amen. Amin. Ameyn.

Song of Gathering: “Healing”

Remembrance (Unison)

            As Moses held the healing serpent to heal his people in the wilderness,

            As the waters of Ezekiel’s temple healed the errant life of Israel,

            As Jesus healed with touch and word the suffering people all around him.

            As Peter healed the crippled beggar at the temple’s gate,

            As the tree of God’s renewed creation will bring healing to the land,

            So the work of healing flows throughout the ages in the faithful circle of God’s love.

Song Response: “Healing” —Antiphon and Refrain

            “May your mind be renewed by God’s Wisdom,

            May your hands bring Shalom to the earth.”

Thanksgiving  (Unison)

O God of Healing, God of Love,

When we wander in perplexity and fear, you draw us to this table with the bounty of your faithfulness. When our bodies tremble with the burden of their finitude, you release our spirits to the open vistas of your new creation. The patient work of your renewal leads us to the steady care of one another. The marvel of your intricate creation leads our minds to seek the healing of your wondrous ways. At your table we renew our hope in your miracle of mercy:

            Thank you, God, Holy One,

            Thank you, God Creating,* Thank you God.

                                    *Redeeming, Transforming

Sharing at Table

            “The Bread of Life”                 ”The Cup of Healing”

A Reading:

The Conversation:

             “How Do We Respond Faithfully in the Midst of this Pandemic?”

Gathered Prayers

The Hope Prayer

O Source of Life, You alone are holy.

Come, govern us in perfect peace.

Give us today the food that we need.

Release us from our sin as we release our enemies.

Sustain us in our times of trial.

Liberate us all from evil powers.

Guide us in your justice, wisdom, and peace. Amen, Amin, Ameyn

Words of Commitment

            In God’s love, we will seek the path of reconciliation.

            In God’s power, we will walk the ways of peace.

            In God’s wisdom, we will struggle for God’s justice in this world.

            In God’s mercy, we will seek to care for Earth, our home.

Blessing Song:

            1.)        Go now in peace, blessing and blessed,

                        Grounded in God, Filled with God’s Light.

            2.)        Go now in peace, blessing and blessed,

                        Grounded in God, Filled with God’s love.




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Blessed Be the Bond

I am happy to announce the publication of the third edition of my book Blessed Be the Bond: Christian Perspectives on Marriage and Family. First published by Fortress Press in 1985, it was reprinted in 1989 by University Press of America. In 2010 Professor Richard Hunt, of Fuller Theological School, encouraged me to prepare an edition for ministers and students that he had worked with in recent years. This second edition circulated as an unpublished file until I decided, last year, to bring out a fresh edition, fully reformatted, that would make it available to a wider audience.

On the one hand, the social relationships of marriage and family seem to have changed rapidly in the past few decades, especially with regard to same-sex marriage, but family structures have always been varied and constantly changing under the impact of economic, political, religious, and other social forces. On the other hand, the powerful psychological motives and perennial religious dimensions of marriage endure as indelible aspects of the human condition—what we have also called “human nature.” Because of this, I have found that the framework I proposed originally still offers helpful insights into the sociological, psychological, and religious dimensions of this complex feature of human life.

The book emerged in the wake of my own experience in marriage, family, divorce, and new marriage, so it has an intensity and focus borne of those rich and difficult times. The basic relationship models of hierarchy, equality and organic complementarity still pervade marital relationships. We still experience a complex interaction between the four “subjects” of marriage and family that I identified then: person, couple, family, and household. This sociological ensemble still finds rich connections to classic Christian symbols of sacrament, vocation, covenant, and communion. In a short compass, this book tries to show how these elements are woven together in various people, churches, and cultures, offering models for all of us to consider and even incorporate into our own lives.

This book arose as a companion to my work on public life, God’s Federal Republic, which was reprinted last year by Wipf and Stock Publishers. Both of them fed into the project of work, family and faith that Sylvia and I developed in the 1980s as the OIKOS Project. They lie at the core of much of the research, writing, and teaching that I pursued in the ensuing years.

The revolution in printing and publication that has occurred in the past few years makes it possible for people like me to offer easy access to their work—an intellectual legacy, if you will. If you’re lucky enough to have a wife who is an artist and a daughter expert in graphic arts, you can put out a pretty nice cover as well! Kudos go to Sylvia and Aneliese for their work on this and other books. Because of the low cost of these volumes, a wide audience can take advantage of the presence of these reflections for years to come.

As always, if you take a peek inside, I’m interested in your own reflections, comments, or questions. May we all continue to find many blessings in the bonds that give us life.





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Sanctuary — For Guns?

In the midst of our enormous efforts to hold our Republic together around its founding principles and values, a movement, fostered by the gun industry and its lobbies, has arisen to get local governmental bodies to resist and not enforce any laws or policies infringing on “Second Amendment rights.” Scholars agree that this Amendment to the US Constitution was approved to defend the rights of states over against the federal government, guaranteeing that they could maintain “well-regulated militias.” Long after these militias were professionalized and integrated into a federal military system, these words have now taken on a life of their own as a defense of every individual’s right to “carry and bear arms” as they see fit. In defense of this interpretation, these groups are asking for “sanctuary” from laws that might encroach on their interpretation of that supposed right.

Here in western North Carolina some 200 of my fellow citizens came to a county Commissioners meeting to petition them to “uphold the Second Amendment rights of the citizens of Haywood County” and not to use our public resources to restrict these rights or ”to aid or assist in the enforcement of any unconstitutional restriction of the rights” of the citizens of Haywood County to “keep and bear arms.” I wrote an Op-Ed for our local newspaper opposing this petition. Here’s what I said.

First, the Second Amendment has been interpreted by the Supreme Court in a much narrower fashion than this petition recognizes. As I wrote earlier in the Smoky Mountain News, until 2008 the Second Amendment was almost universally understood to apply to the maintenance of state militias, not free-roving bands of gun owners. In District of Columbia v. Dick Anthony Heller the Supreme Court, by a 5 to 4 decision, interpreted the Second Amendment to mean than individuals have the right to possess a handgun in the home for purposes of self-defense. Beyond that, the ownership and use of guns falls within the regulatory powers of the states and the Federal government.  (You can read the Majority and Dissenting opinions at Any demand to resist laws beyond this narrow periphery are contrary to prevailing Constitutional law.

Second, I am concerned with the way in which this petition seems to be driven by irrational fears. The unreasonable fear by gun owners that their firearms will be taken away from them is dwarfed by the legitimate fear that millions of Americans now have that their lives, their schools, churches, and public spaces will be the scenes of death and gun carnage. The fear that stalks our precious land undermines the mutual trust, care, respect, and collaboration for the common good that are so prominent and treasured in our community and in similar communities across the country. Public display of firearms and even the awareness that people are carrying deadly weapons creates a climate of fear that undermines the very public life we would protect and nourish. A declaration such as that proposed by the petition creates fear rather than trust and hospitality.

Finally, as someone deeply involved in the church and theological work, I need to point out that the term “sanctuary” means a place where sacred objects and rituals take place. The petition implies that our guns have become sacred objects whose ritual use protects our lives from all harm. I have to ask, then, how this sacred object squares with devotion to the God in whom we are to trust to overcome our fears. Rather than declaring our county a sanctuary for guns would it not be better to declare it a sanctuary for hospitality to the stranger, to the self-giving exemplified in so many lives around us, and especially in the life of our friend and neighbor, Riley Howell? I hope that the Commission can continue to foster these values in positive ways so that people do not rush to a defense of unregulated gun ownership and use that seems to have generated this petition and which only fans the fires of fear that threaten our public life.

The Commission subsequently passed a resolution to uphold all our Constitutional rights, among them those claimed in the Second Amendment. It was a delicate compromise that I hope gives people time to cool off, even if it does not challenge this radical interpretation of the amendment.  Our nation is the only one I know of that is saddled with such a Constitutional provision whose radical and anachronistic interpretation corrodes the very essence of civil society. However, this implicit radical anarchism is only part of the wider undermining of the rational argument, separation of powers, and reverence for law we are struggling against in these days. May God’s own flourishing republic emerge in the midst of our honest speech and deep listening. Let me know what you’re thinking—and doing— as well.



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